Here's what you have to turn off, in the BCM. Perhaps
@Unholy707 can provide specifics on how to get to this setting because I don't remember exactly without going through the motions myself.
ADCM Active Dumping Control, this should be enabled on cars with an active dampening control module. Switch it to Not Enabled and everything will work as if you don't have it when all 4 shocks have been swapped to aftermarket. Don't mind the name, they mislabeled it in the software.